Nude selfies are a great form of foreplay and can also really put the heat in a long distance relationship.
Have you ever been in the situation where you were sexting a guy and all of a sudden he asks for a nude pic? Of course, you have! We’ve all been there.
Or maybe, you were just craving your man’s attention so you decided it would be an ideal time to send a sexy nude selfie to get his motor running and have your phone blowing up.
Either way, from this little personal photo shoot experience, I’m sure you realized you have no idea how to even begin this sexy treat for bae.
Inevitably, during the process, you get frustrated snapping selfie after selfie because nothing is coming out in the sexy porn star way that you want.
Tips and tricks on how to take the absolute best nude selfies (no crying from frustration required) that’ll have your man drooling.
So, get out the selfie stick, ladies, and get snapping!
The environment of where you take the photo is super important. You want your man to be looking at your delicious goodies not at that pile of dirty laundry in the background that you’ve been putting off all week.
For a photo shoot location, try something sexy and simple such as your bed. This is a place you already feel comfortable, and, of course, it’s a traditional spot for booty. The vision of you posing all sexy in front of or on your bed will get his mind full of all the dirty things he’d like to do to you in those sheets.
Or you could try something more adventurous like sitting naked at (or on) your kitchen table with a can of whipped cream or some chocolate sauce to show him you know how to have fun.
Lighting also falls under the category of environment and it is key to a successful nude selfie. Natural lighting is always best, but in NYC where tiny apartments harbor tiny windows that look out to brick walls or into unlit alleyways, it’s not always possible. Also, you can’t always plan a selfie for perfect noon sun. Sometimes a nude pic request comes in the dead of night when your boo is laying in his bed without you and you have to work with what you’ve got.
So, if you can’t pose in natural light, the next best thing is soft lighting. You definitely don’t want to use the flash on your phone; that’s just calling for your cellulite and other little imperfections to come out and be seen (not that he’d even care, but you probably would).
You also want to make sure that it’s not too dark…because then, what’s the point? If he has to stare at the picture to try to decipher your knee from your pussy then it’s not worth sending.
The number one rule is to make sure you are comfortable in whatever you decide to pose in. A sexy selfie doesn’t always mean a nude pic.
There is, of course, the full nude selfie, which is always a winner, because who wouldn’t want to see their lover butt-ass naked? But, this could lead to the problem of…how do you top it? If you want this sexting conversation to be a lingering form of foreplay, then you may want to tease him a little first. However, if you’re just trying to get him to uber over then a full nude selfie will definitely do the trick.
If you choose to tease him a little, then a classic option is to wear a sexy pair of panties with a matching bra. Or flash him a tit or a sneak-peek of your tush. I guarantee he’ll be begging to see more.
Another popular choice for nude selfies is donning some sexy lingerie. Some men love when their women put in the effort to get a little fancy in the bedroom. And most women love dressing up because it makes them feel pretty and confident, which is important. Remember when you are comfortable it’s much easier to be the confident sex kitten you’re trying to portray.
This is the super tricky part and where most women get stuck and completely frustrated. Sometimes, it feels so unnatural to “pose sexy”. You may feel like you’re trying too hard, but don’t!
You also will probably start noticing all of your “flaws” (which are actually not flaws because you are a f***king goddess). To make yourself feel better, always try to highlight your favorite feature. There are a lot of great angles for each body part, you just need to be patient and find what works for you and how you can make the lighting and the angle work together to create your nude masterpiece.
A quick tip that’ll boost your posing game is to always suck it in or hold it up to accentuate certain areas of your body. Just be sure not to make it obvious.
Here is a list of poses that you might want to try…
The Booty Shot
To recreate this shot, lay fat on your stomach either on the bed or the floor. You can take the shot with your face in view while lifting your hips up to get an over-the-shoulder view of your ass. Or you could nix the face and just angle your phone over your shoulder so your bae gets a prime shot of that juicy booty.
Sexy Mirror Selfie
The sexy mirror selfie is one of the most popular choices for a nude selfie because it’s so versatile. You could show as much or as little as you want, depending on your attire, but this is definitely the best choice if you want to give your bae a full-on show. A fun trick is to squat down profile, to accentuate your waist, hips, and booty. You could also try wearing thong underwear and bending over for some more erotic views.
Laying Down Body Shot
This shot is great because you can lay your hair out all sexy on your bed while you show your man your whole body, head to toe. However, if you want to keep some things hidden, you could just take a shot of your top half…or your bottom half. It’s really up to you.
Bubble Bath Selfie
Who doesn’t love a good bubble bath selfie? The foamy bubbles and drips of water on your thighs and nipples will drive him crazy! He’ll be asking you to make room in your tub for him.
Quick Tip: Take an ice-cold drink into the tub with you and place one of the ice cubes on your nipple before you snap the picture. A hard nipple is a sexy nipple.
The Teasing Pose
Teasing poses are hot AF and they’re a great escape if you’re feeling a little self-conscious that day. You can pick what parts of your body you want to show and hide the ones you don’t.
Some popular teasing nude selfies include…
- Showing the top of a pair of lacey panties and your navel.
- Showing your legs with a pair of thigh-high stockings.
- Showing your nipples through a white tee.
Remember to always be careful when you are sending a sexy pic. Especially if you decide to put both your naked body and your face in one single image. Revenge porn is not fun.
If you do choose to show your face make sure you trust the person that’s receiving it.
A facial expression in a sexy pic makes all the difference. Your man does not want to see a silly duckface. Instead, try a sexy smile.
Another good option is to intensely smile with your eyes and part your lips slightly. This evokes an open, ready-to-play vibe to your boo.
If you want to get a little adventurous, try making a slight gasp as you snap the shot. Your man will be thinking, “I want to get her to make that face,” and you’ll be thanking NYGal for the advice when he succeeds.