Many people won’t even attempt a long distance relationship, because they believe it’s doomed to fail. We’re here to tell you that it’s totally possible to have a long and healthy long distance relationship…as long as you keep it spicy. LDRs fail because people stop putting in the effort. Many don’t know how to keep a long distance relationship alive.
But, don’t worry, NYGal is here to help you keep your relationship hot and spicy. You no longer have to wonder if your relationship is going to fail because, with these tips, your bae will keep coming back for more.
Exchange Sexy Texts
Let this be known; sexting never gets old! When done right, you can turn your boo on without even being in the same room. The best thing about sexting is you can get as dirty as you want and not worry about looking stupid. For some women, talking dirty makes them feel awkward; but with the phone in front of your face instead of your man, you can be bold.
Men love getting that sexy text to give them something to think about before bed. Ease your way into a full love-fest and get him off by just using your words. Just make sure he’s not at a work function or out with his friends first. Nothing is worse than getting a hard-on in public (or so we’ve heard). If you need a little courage to get your sext going, check out our ultimate guide to sexting.
Do A Sexy Webcam Dance
Facetime and Skype are part of the LDR survival kit. Texts are great, but sometimes you need to see your lover’s face. Use these moments to do something sexy for bae. Throw on some lingerie, turn on some Beyonce’, and get that body moving. If you aren’t sure what dances to do, look at some of your favorite music videos and practice before getting in front of the camera.
Don’t panic if you mess up. Your man will just be happy that he’s seeing your body. If you feel really comfortable, you can go for the striptease.
Send Each Other Fun Gifts
Show your love that you’re still thinking about him by sending him something he’ll enjoy. If he’s a gamer, send him that video game he’s been talking about getting. Try to get a multiplayer game so that you both can play together. Expressing interest in the things he loves will definitely keep the relationship healthy.
To spice things up a bit, send him a pair your sexy panties to have him thinking of you all day and night; and ask him to send you something of his to remind you of his scent and style. Remember, this is a two-way street. You both have to participate for this to keep your LDR alive.
Set Up A Photoshoot And Send Him The Proofs
When you want to send more than just a selfie, indulge in a personal project. Hire a photographer for the day to take sensual photos of you. Don’t go full-on nude though. Let him imagine what your body looks like beneath the clothes.
After the shoot, pick a few of your favorites and send them by mail. Print photos are more personal than digital ones; and this way, he can frame them.
Plan A Surprise Visit
A couple can only last so long without seeing each other in person. If you have to ask yourself when was the last time you saw your man, then it’s time to plan a trip. Get his schedule beforehand, but don’t let him know you’re coming. Surprises are always better. If you can get in contact with any of his friends, ask them to keep him home until you get there.
You should wear something to catch his attention, to keep his eyes from wandering. Once he sees you, he won’t want to look at any other girl. Focus on pleasing him the first night. There are so many ways to spice up your sex life and try something new.