NYGal believes that feeling sexy and confident is the key to success. And, everyone finds their sexiness in different ways!
So, we decided to ask the public what makes them feel their sexiest. Hopefully, these answers will help you embrace your sexy!
Having been by myself for so long, it’s taken a lot to find my own sexiness. Sometimes, that sexiness is catching a glimpse of myself after a well-rested night’s sleep, and my hair is that perfect “bed-head”, and my face is puffy from moisturizing the night before.
Sometimes, I find my sexiness as I’m about to get into the shower and I notice “oh, that thigh is a little toned” or, “did I lose weight in my stomach?”
Sometimes, I find my own sexiness when I find clothes that fit just right, a good dress or some awesome skinny jeans.
But recently, I’ve found my sexiness in my accomplishments. When something I’ve worked hard on pays off, I begin to glow and I catch a look at myself in the mirror and I can’t help but smile. And, THAT surges through me; giving me this unstoppable sexy confidence as if I could take on the world.
So, I guess what makes me feel sexy or when I think I am the sexiest is when I stop to take a moment and appreciate myself and think “damn, I’m sexy.”
That walk home after the gym. And, then for the rest of the day, I feel confident, which makes me feel sexy.
So, what first came to my mind was when I put on my favorite thong. I feel sexy, but also fierce. Along with dressing up and putting on makeup; both which I don’t have many opportunities to do in my day-to-day. I was thinking about it, while what I listed are material things it was more my choice to be bold. That’s what makes me feel sexy, being bold and confident.
I feel my sexiest when I’m dressed up and I’m having a great time and laughing a lot. I could be dressed either professionally for work with no makeup or maybe a sparkly dress and heavy eyeshadow when I’m going out. I think it’s the confidence in those moments that makes me feel sexy. Also, I love to talk and laugh. I’m a sucker for a good conversation.
Right after I shave my legs.
When I’m out with my husband and I’m wearing heels! I’m tall to begin with so tall heels used to make me super uncomfortable, but my husband likes that I’m tall and always tells me he loves when I wear heels! Now, whenever I wear them, I feel like a powerful, sexy woman.
It’s very rare for me to feel sexy. When I do, it’s usually because I’m dressed nicely with my hair down and heels on.
I feel my sexiest when I have time to prepare and focus on myself. Growing up with dance competitions and theatre, I think I was accidentally programmed that way. I would get ready for a show by making my hair and makeup flawless, and sit around for hours in front of the mirror until it was time for me to be onstage. I thrived in that process, treating myself as a living doll, and I absolutely love taking the time to be all dolled-up.
Of course, compliments help reassure that yes, indeed, I am a snack. For every day sexy, it’s the little things. Obviously, I don’t have the time for theatre hair and makeup. But, things like getting my nails done, sculpting my brows, doing yoga, eating food I feel good about; That’s how I get myself to feel girl-next-door sexy.
I feel sexiest with sweatpants on that are comfy and show off the booty! What makes me feel sexy is comfort and being admired. My favorite thing is when I’m feeling hideous and my man tells me I’m beautiful no matter what.
It may be cliche, but I love how sexy lingerie makes me feel. There is nothing like wearing a beautiful lingerie set. It makes me feel sexy, confident and put together. I often wear cute pantie and bra sets when I have a big meeting for that very reason! Plus, it doesn’t hurt that my husband also loves them too!
Now, that I’m a “boring, married woman”, I feel sexy in a whole new way. When I was single I would find my sex appeal by wearing shirts that accentuated my cleavage and curves. I felt sexy when I had eyes on me. Nowadays there’s only one set of eyes on me, and I like finding new ways each day to catch his attention.
I feel my sexiest when I can still get my husband hot in the pants. Whether it’s a steamy, suggestive text while he’s at work, or a new set of lacy panties, I need less effort to feel sexy now than before. It’s wonderful.
Knowing that I can make a man’s heart beat faster by a simple touch while we’re out grocery shopping, or make him think dirty thoughts all day with a single text. And, what helps is that the man I’m seducing is my own husband. Finding new ways to seduce my husband is what makes me feel sexy every day.
Honestly, it’s usually when I’m out at a place with a lot of people and my wife still only has her eyes on me. Or, getting dressed up really nice for events.
When I wear my secret weapon cologne…
When I wear a matching bra and underwear set; wearing cute lingerie when I am able to do my makeup well.