I will not be cliche and liken older women to fine wine. But, it is hard to deny that mature women hold a certain appeal for some younger guys. But why? Experience, confidence, open-mindedness are all common answers. There has to be more to it than that, so let’s take a closer look at 13 reasons why younger guys are drawn to mature women.
Confidence is Sexy
Mature women know who they are and what they have accomplished in life. They tend not to concern themselves with what others think of them. Without the need to feel validated, older women can give off an aura of confidence. Younger guys often find this confidence irresistible and can be drawn to it.
Mature Women are Emotionally Stable
Hormones and stress can be trying on younger men and women. Being out on their own for the first time and still maturing on the inside can push people to extreme ends on the emotional spectrum. The fact that men and women handle stress and emotions differently can often lead to conflict.
Older women have been there and done that; they understand how to process emotions and react to them. Younger men often find a woman that can keep her cool in situations more enjoyable to spend time with. It also provides emotional insight the younger man can use to better himself.
Know When to Let Go
Break-ups can be a minefield of emotions. At times younger people find a sense of self in their relationship with others. Older women have been down this road and understand that you do not need someone else to define you. This can be incredibly attractive to a younger man over the emotional roller-coaster dating can be at times.
They Know What Not to Say
Young women can be catty and gossipy at times. And that can be draining for a lot of guys. Older women have matured and moved past all of that nonsense.
They Have Their Own
A lot of guys will often feel like they have to support their women and provide monetarily. But many older women have worked their way to financial stability. It can be a great feeling for a young guy to know that the finances will be split evenly.
The Way to a Young Man’s Heart
It has been said that the way to a man’s heart is his stomach. A mature woman has had more time to hone her cooking skills. It’s fantastic to come home after work and know your dinner won’t be burnt!
No More Kids
If a younger guy doesn’t want kids, an older woman can often be beyond that part of her life.
Whether her children are grown, or she never had any, a mature woman will likely be stable and set in her life. With a younger woman, the guy may feel pressured to bring a baby into the world that he isn’t thrilled to be having.
Drinking and clubbing can be fun, but there is a season for everything. Young guys can get burnt out on constant partying and look for something a little quieter. Quiet doesn’t mean boring; it can be nice dinners out and quality time alone at home together.
Straight to the Point
Mature women have grown out of playing games. It can be tiring to have to guess what your partner wants all of the time. Older women will often be straightforward and know this is the best way to keep everyone happy.
Unique Point of View
Young guys are still finding their way, and the path isn’t always straightforward. A mature woman who has been out in the world can offer guys a new perspective on things. It can be refreshing and stimulating to have your mind opened to new ways of seeing and thinking.
Can Handle Herself
Having life experience can not be overvalued. A mature woman will have been through the ups and downs that come with relationships, work, and life in general. Besides finding it sexy, being with a strong, confident woman can make younger guys feel more confident themselves.
Mature women can handle themselves. They don’t need a guy to fight their battles for them. And while yes, guys indeed have an instinctive drive to protect and be heroes, they don’t have to with an older woman. It can be relaxing and freeing to know you have a real partner at your side and not a damsel to protect.
Sex is just better with a mature older woman. They know what they want, how they want it, and where they want it. Mature women are often less inhibited than younger women and more confident. So yes, the sex is so much better!
That was 13 reasons young guys would fall for a mature woman, and honestly, the list could have been longer! Older women have an air of confidence and maturity about them that is almost radiant at times. It isn’t just about sex and kinks; you will have to respect them and play by their rules. After all, they have earned it!