As women, we like to plan. We like to know what’s going on at all times and be ready for what’s to come. Men don’t seem to EVER have a definite game-plan when it comes to the important things such as birthdays, anniversaries, and relationships.
However, men DEFINITELY have a game-plan when it comes to what’s happening in the bedroom. NYgal asked 16 guys their go-to signature moves to get their girls going and these are the responses we received…
“The rule of 3-1”- she gets three to my one no matter what it takes. If you’re giving that much you tend to get it back just as intensely.
Giving the girl head usually works or rubbing her clit during sex. Touch her whole body, especially her butt.
Not to be basic but for me, it might be kissing, it’s such a simple but powerful way of feeling the other person out and sort of getting in sync with each other. Sometimes it’s not there right away, but it’s sort of a sexy and vulnerable thing to find that balance with someone. Gone are the days where my main priority is to just get off. I’m all about exploring and discovering what the other person likes or has been curious about trying. I guess something that always works is expressing to my partner that I’m an open book with sex – I love to find pleasure in things I didn’t think I would necessarily be into.
Kiss up and down her body to find out what she responds to the most.
I really enjoy the starting and sometimes finishing move in which she lays on her back and I’m on my side and then we make our body like scissors. We call it half and half because we are unimaginative and like coffee.
When I’m on top, I like missionary a lot. I like to look into my partner’s face and feel their thighs grip me. That’s usually how I start and then we do everything from a-z. Really depends on the chemistry.
My go-to, never-fail is oral sex. I find it much more rewarding to give than to receive. You can never go wrong with good head, especially when you throw in a well-placed finger, some low humming, and take your time to really enjoy it. You can learn a lot about someone by learning what makes them squirm.
Massages or tickle fights usually lead to more.
My go-to sex move is to kiss them unexpectedly and exactly when I want it. Then, I pull away right before it gets too intense, which always takes their breath away and keeps them wanting more.
I kinda just go with what I feel and what she’s feeling.
I love sex. I think it’s important and fun and awesome, especially when it’s kinky. I could go down on a girl forever before we actually have the “act”. 69 or bust! That’s my thing. I like to make sure she’s ready to go when push comes to fuck. Doggystyle, lifting her up, all the above. It can’t be one-sided. Or it can. I don’t care.
Neck kisses have never failed me.
I don’t think that any woman is satisfied without feeling a deep emotional connection with her partner during sexual intercourse. The feminist trend that says a woman can be as promiscuous as a man (and happy) is wrong. Men are sexually satisfied with visual stimulation, women are sexually satisfied with emotional connection. If she doesn’t feel like you love her, she is statistically extremely unlikely to climax to an orgasm. The manliest and sexiest thing a man can do is to be a gentleman.
I always like to go down on a girl before sex. Foreplay is important. If you aren’t sure what to do, trace out the letters of the alphabet with your tongue. You’ll find out what kinds of motions she likes.
My wife and I like to have fun in the bedroom. I usually start out by giving her belly button a raspberry. It makes her laugh and really gets things going.
I’d say something I always do is a lot of oral. Not always right away, but it’s something I’ve always been told I’m good at and it’s been a really good way for her to relax. If she can orgasm from oral then I kind of feel like the rest is more fun.
Feature image credit: [Yana Emets]