As NYgals, we are terribly busy. It’s hard to spend a significant amount of time with your partner while frolicking around NYC being absolutely fabulous. I mean, really, with our careers, our social obligations, and our never-ending problems with the MTA, time really gets away from us. So, how are we supposed to fit these spicy moments with our special people into our too-tight schedules?
Sexting, obviously. We all do it, and let’s face it, who doesn’t like picking up their phone to see a super steamy text from their partner?
NYgal is here to break down the go-to dirty texts to send in order to help you create the perfect sext that’ll make your partner crave you.
BUT, Remeber the key to any good sext is creativity, detail, and customization! Never EVER feel like you have to use language that you aren’t comfortable with. If you’re a lady in the sheets, feel free to talk nice and sweet, but if you’re a freak, then, baby, definitely show it off!
P.S. Winky faces never fail.
1. The Subtle Text
The “Subtle” text is for the shy girls, mainly, but it can also be used if you are testing sexting out with a new partner. There are some guys (though very rare) that are so not into the whole dirty texting thing. Totally fine- you can like what you like!
But, the “Subtle” text works as an excellent way to figure out if he’s into it, by testing the waters a little. This method also helps the shy girl to loosen up and feel comfortable with their partner. Some girls just aren’t ready to tell their new partner that their V is wet for them right away, and that’s totally fine!
The “Subtle” text also works well for a little mystery. He’ll be wondering what you’re thinking…and let me tell you, it’s always good to get a guy thinking. If you want to play the game a little instead of being aggressive, the subtle text is a good way to keep him wanting more.
Examples of this are…
1). It’s cold. Come keep me warm?
2). I can’t wait for you to come home…I have something to show you…
3). About to jump in the shower…wish you were here.
The Question Text
The “Question” text helps your partner to open up to you and may help in initiating an extremely intimate conversation between the two of you. This is great news because we all know sex is always better when you know what your partner likes and you’ve had open conversations about your work in the bedroom.
The “Question” text is a way to show your partner that you are interested in pleasing them and, in turn, be satisfied by them. It doesn’t have to be straight-forward and formal. On the contrary, it should be fun and flirty and make you feel good, because that’s what sex is all about.
Examples of this are…
1). If I was there right now what would you do to me?
2). What is something you’ve always wanted to try?
3). Can I teach you what I like?
The I’m Masturbating Right NOW Text
The “I’m Masturbating Right NOW” text can be done in a few different ways. But, the best way to do it is when you are ACTUALLY touching yourself- to see if maybe he wants to help a girl out. Because, I mean, if he can’t be there physically, at least he can support you over text message.
The thought of him helping you get off without even being there will make him think about you until he can finally satisfy you physically. It’ll create images in his head of you, laying there, on your duvet with your vibrator in place, thinking about his you know what…
This type of a text is a win-win for you, NYgal, as it gives YOU, both satisfaction in the moment and in the future…so go ahead and get busy.
Examples of this are…
1). I’m touching myself right now thinking about your hard (insert choice word).
2). Tell me something sexy so I can cum.
3). I really wish you were my vibrator right now…
The Memory Text
The “Memory” text will get him to think about the things you two have already done in bed, which is great if the booty has been prime! If it hasn’t- maybe skip this one. Hey, some couples need more time to get it right than others!
For this, let’s assume you two are Energizer bunnies in bed and you can’t keep your hands off of each other. If that’s the case, sending a memory text will make him remember the feelings he felt during that session and crave it again. Good sex is like a drug!
Examples of this are…
1). Remember when we (insert choice word) on the (location) and you (memory)?
2). I cannot stop thinking about the way you felt inside of me last night.
3). I loved when we (insert choice word) in your car. It felt just like high school again.
The I Want Text
The “I Want” text is fun because it’s one that you can definitely get creative with. It’s also a good one to show your confidence in bed and let him know that you REALLY want it.
This text will make him feel like a total stud, and have him wanting to please you and give you everything you’re asking for. So, like why wouldn’t you send it?
It’s also a good text to help direct a man in the right direction. Maybe, he hasn’t been able to satisfy you before, but if you let him know exactly what you want, hopefully, he’ll be smart enough to do it next time he sees you and pass the test with flying colors! If not…no second chances. Sorry, boys.
Examples of this are…
1). I want to push you on the bed, get on top of you and…
2). I want you to slowly kiss me up and down my body until…
3). I want you to pull my hair as you…
The Pic Text
The “Pic” text is pretty self-explanatory. It’s a nude pic sent through text. This can be done in a couple of different ways. But, remember, always be careful with sending nude pics. You want to make sure you are completely comfortable with the person and trust that they will not show others unless you don’t care! Then do you!
The are two kinds of nudes you could send. You could send a half-naked one, a little more subtle, or you can show all your goodies; it really depends on what you are comfortable with.
There are also two ways to send a nude. You could either send one while you two are already deep into a sexting frenzy or out of the blue (as long as it’s solicited), to get him going while he’s at work and can’t do a damn thing about his you know what getting a little stiff.
If you choose the latter, you’ll be sure to have a good time when he comes home to you.
Have fun, NYgals and sext on!
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