It’s Memorial Day weekend and you know what that means…THREE DAYS OF MIND-BLOWING SEX! Cancel those beach plans and that Sunday BBQ, because these ideas will have you wanting to get down all weekend!
Throw your sexiest lingerie on and do some stretches because you’re about to get a workout in!
1.Hey! Take it Outside!
It is finally summer and there is no better excuse to take that booty out of the bedroom and into nature. I know what you’re thinking, what kind of nature is in NYC? But the answer is a lot!
NYC has beaches, quiet nature trails, and a million rooftops. Shoot for the stars, ladies! The excitement of getting caught will be a bonus to the new romantic setting.
2. Be the Boss!
If you’re the girl who usually likes being submissive, try your hand at taking charge! We all have an inner boss just dying to get out. With that being said, take off the lace and put on the leather and get ready to get rough with him.
Try some light (or not-so-light) BDSM, because handcuffs and blindfolds never go out of style!
3. Open Up That Toy Box!
Sometimes a little extra buzz can really get us going and it’s a rare treat when your guy is down for letting some extra play-things into the sheets!
With vibrators, anal beads, and cock rings; there is something for everyone! Buy a bunch and have some fun!
P.S. Don’t forget the lube!
4. Can You See Me Now?
Yes, we can go and buy toys, but don’t underestimate the power of the “toys” you already have. Full-length mirrors can turn a mediocre sex-session into an instant-O!
Who doesn’t want to see how much they’re turning their man on? And your man will love seeing you squirm. Get him behind you, so you both can get a prime view, but just be careful not to fog the mirror!
5. Snap Snap Flash Flash!
A lot of couples have invested in Boudoir shoots with absolutely no regrets, but an even sexier idea is to do a make-shift photoshoot on your own. Set-up the “studio”, dress or undress to impress, and get out your phones.
Have your guy act as the creative director; he’ll like taking control, and you’ll see his face light up with each flash.
6. Oil Me Up!
Take turns with your partner treating each other to a slow and sensual massage. Because, hey, we all have kinks!
The touching will heighten sexual tension until you’re begging him to finish off the job. Be sure, to have him hold out until you can’t take it anymore. Your body will feel completely relaxed, except for your pulsing V, so that your body will be ready for the big finish.
7. Do You Come Here Often?
This one is for the fun couple!
These are your instructions:
- Go to a bar at separate times- Say 30 minutes apart.
- Spend time talking to other people, but make sure to give your partner enough attention, sharing winks and looks while sipping your drinks.
- Eventually approach one another, like you’ve never met before. Flirt with him enough, giggle at his bad jokes, and flip your hair like a mermaid, until he buys you a drink.
- Then…the fun part! Dance with each other, have drinks, and party like it’s just a hook-up!
- Finally, take him back for some sloppy sex! Sometimes messy can be fun!
It’ll help put that exciting feeling of being with a new person, back into the equation.
P.S. Make sure you get their number!
8. Couples Who Bubble-Bath Together, Stay Together!
It’s Memorial Day weekend, so take some time to relax! You deserve it. Put a colorful Lush bath bomb in your tub, or some lavender bath-salts and get soaking…with some wine, of course! Oh, also your man! Don’t forget him!
Music and candles are optional but highly recommended!
Sit in front of him, and push up against him, so he can feel your weight on his, well…everything. The quiet, sexy environment, will get his mind racing, and his hands exploring.
69-ing is like ice-cream! It’s a treat. It’s something we usually don’t have every day. But, you have the permission from NYgal to “TREAT YO’SELF!”. Even get an extra scoop, if you want- whatever that means!
This is one of the sexiest positions, and not just because of the view. You get to be pleasured, while also pleasuring your partner. What’s sexier than that? All positions should be this equal! Just don’t get lazy!
10. Look Ma, No Hands!
I triple-dog-dare you to…explore each other with every part of you, BUT your hands. But here’s the real challenge, can you still get each other off?
This fun little challenge will be sure to spice up your long weekend! Definitely set aside some time for this one though! We don’t realize how precious our hands are until we can’t use them anymore.
P.S. No cheating and using toys. Tie your hands behind your back if you have to!
11. Tease Him Like an 80’s Hair-Do!
Tease, tease, tease, until he can’t take it anymore! If you’re feeling confident, give him a lap-dance and flash your goodies in his face, but don’t let him grab your hips and take control.
Or, if you’re feeling a little shy, tease by letting him enter you for moments at a time, but only slightly. Do this repeatedly, while whispering dirty-talk into his ear.
Whatever you decide to do, push him to the limit until he pushes you on the bed!
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