One of the great things about guys is that is doesn’t always take raunchy or downright pornographic talk to turn them on.
In fact, ask any guy, and he will tell you that they like a little bit of mystery. Tease them and make them use their imagination a little bit and they will want more.
When you can’t or don’t want to send him actual photos, you’ll want to create some mystery or have questions for him that he can’t wait to discover the answers to. This makes sexting messages the perfect option.
Use mystery to your advantage
It’s so easy to say something like “I’m wearing those hot pink boy shorts you bought for Xmas last year.”
OK, while he might enjoy thinking about you in those next to nothing undies, there is no mystery in this statement, especially if he’s seen you in them before.
However, something like “I’m wearing something that is making me so hot for you, just having it next to my skin is making me wet. Wanna know what it is?”
You bet he’s going to want to know what it is! The trick is not to tell him. At least not right away. Make him guess. Give him hints. Tease him.
Ask for his opinion
You don’t want to ask his opinion about how often to change the oil on your car, heavens! You want his opinion on sexual matters. Men love women to ask for their advice, so be blunt.
“I’m looking at sex toys online. Do you think I should buy the Rabbit or the Scout Master? “
“Would you like to see me with another woman? Do you think I would know what to do? Maybe you could give me some advice first, perhaps even show me.”
“It’s so damn hot. I’m only wearing one thing tonight. What do you think that should be?”
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Be very suggestive
While you can go all out PornHub, sometimes it’s better to merely make suggestions or ask a win-win question. You want to give him something to think about. Saying “I’m going to blow you when you get home” is a nice thought to be sure but asking him to buy some Altoids before he comes home will make him wonder if he’s getting that blow job.
Try some of the following sexting messages suggestions:
“I’ve been bad today. I WAY overspent at that sale. Someone should spank me for this”
“IDK what is wrong with me today. I’m just so horny, I can’t stop having all these hot, sexy thoughts.”
“I’m so cold, I’ve got like 3 blankets on the bed. I should get up and put on some clothes.”
Let him take the lead
Most guys like to take the lead. Instead of you telling him what you are going to do, why not ask him what he wants to do?
“If you could only do one thing with me tonight, what would it be?”
“Let’s play Simon Says. You are Simon, OK?”
“Tell me about the hottest wet dream you ever had”
The secret to becoming a sexting master is to know your man, don’t give away too much all at once, and let him know that he’s the one you want.