Aries (March 21-April 19)
Aries, past relationship trauma has been terrorizing your dating life for months, but now you are finally getting through it.
Pat yourself on the back, dear Aries, because you are finally ready to make the leap into a real relationship. Silly flings aren’t doing it for you anymore and now that your emotional trauma is healed, you can commit to something real. Although you’re not used to a safe and secure bond, you will fall into it easily with the right person.
Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Taur, life is just dragging you down recently. Your lover is making plans left and right and you just can’t seem to keep up.
Girl, there is no sense in dragging yourself through hell in order to stay in this relationship that you’re just not feeling. Even though you are a loyal person, doesn’t mean you have to stay with someone just to spare their feelings. Cut it off now, before it gets worse.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Gem, girl, you are feeling super sensitive lately and it’s not just because of the full moon last weekend. Your lover may have said something that upset you and you’re totally dwelling on it.
This weekend, find the time to actually address the issue. Communication is key, and you should know this by now, Gemini. Your lover probably doesn’t even know they said something stupid and they definitely don’t know how much it is bothering you. So, be open and let them know why you’ve been crying into your coffee every morning.
Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Cancer, you feel the need to be the strong one in the relationship right now, and it’s really eating at you emotionally.
It’s ok to be there for your significant other, but if you find that this is a constant theme in the relationship, maybe it’s time to address some underlying issues. Is the relationship really a partnership? Or, is your lover dependent on you? Realize that you need to be taken care of too, Cancer.
Leo (July 23-August 22)
Leo, you are entering a big transformation in your love life right now and this is one that you didn’t see coming.
You have been pretty content with the lover you are seeing, but a sudden realization will have you questioning what is happiness in a relationship? Do you see yourself with this person forever or is this just something to pass the time? You may not want to waste any more of your energy on this one, Leo, but you’ll discover that when you are ready.
Virgo (August 23-September 22)
Virgo, it is about to be the new year and that means it is time to cut those toxic people out of your life. There is no room for them in 2019.
This weekend, be mindful of what you experience with the people in your dating circle. Who makes you feel good? Who makes you wake up feeling like shit and full of regret? And, who allows you to be yourself? All of these things are important to consider when deciding who to share your energy with; It’s precious and there isn’t enough to spread to unworthy souls.
Libra (September 23-October 22)
Libra, why is your partner making your life a living hell? It’s insane how someone you used to love so much could be doing this to you, but wake up, girl, it’s happening!
You do not have to put up with the constant relationship flip-flopping game. It’s not fair to you and it’s hurting your self-esteem more than you let on. Your boo should love you at all times, not just when they find it convenient. Love is a full-time job, not a part-time one.
Scorpio (October 23-November 22)
Scorp, you are breaking some majorly bad habits going into the new year, and we are all so damn proud of you.
You’re saying ‘goodbye’ to those losers you meet on the LES on Saturday nights and saying ‘hello’ to some real potential suitors. In NYC, no one wants to grow up, but you’ve decided it’s time for you to make the switch into a real relationship and look for someone to feed your soul, not just your V.
Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)
Sag, you’ve been kind of being lazy in the dating game, which is totally cool, because sometimes you just need a little ‘you’ time.
This weekend, though, it’s time to get back out there and show those NYC lovers what they’ve been missing. Go out and be open to actually meeting someone that could have real potential. I know you love a sexy one-night stand, but what good did that ever do for you? Now, that you’ve had some ‘you’ time, it’s time to approach dating in a new way. You’ll be surprised what comes out of it.
Capricorn (December 22-January 19)
Cap, you love rules and boundaries and now is the ideal time to set them in your love life. Your current partner is a little more hippy-dippy than you, so you need to let them know where you draw the line.
There are certain sacrifices that a Cap just won’t make and there are certain lifestyles they are not willing to become accustomed to. Be sure to make clear what your limits are and your ideal relationship dynamic. You need to be upfront in order to prevent future issues.
Aquarius (January 20-February 18)
Aquarius, it’s time to make some very difficult decisions concerning your love life. Is this bae ‘the one’ or are you on a trail with no destination?
You are traditional and crave the family life…maybe, not right now, but eventually. So, is this lover of yours down for all of that or are they just wasting your time? It’s hard to tell without having a real conversation about it. But, be real with yourself, Aquarius, do you already have a gut feeling? If so, trust it, but also communicate with your partner. Whatever happens, you will make it through. You’re tougher than you look.
Pisces (February 19-March 20)
Pisces, you are your lover have been recently fighting about money, which is not only exhausting and frustrating but also…so serious.
You didn’t realize you were in this deep with your lover until the issue of money came up, which means major commitment. This is the time to really evaluate how you feel about this relationship. If your lover is already discussing finances with you, that means that it is only going to continue down this path of a real adult relationship. This weekend, figure out if this is what you want before you end up leading your boo on.