Wait, are you telling me you don’t already practice edging? Well, I am going to tell you why you need to start. TODAY.
At NYgal, we feel strongly about making our pleasurable moments count. Every. Single. One. We don’t like wasting our time with poor hook-ups and mediocre booty. We are super busy, so if you don’t edge- BYE BOY.
Edging is a great way to make sure that your O will be the absolute best it can be; for both men and women! It’s a win-win! So get out your vibrator or your man’s D and give it a go.
What Even Is Edging?
Hello, welcome to 2018 where we like to have fun with sex and not just use it as a means of conception. These days, we’re into all sorts of crazy kinks: latex, whips, wax, pegging…you get the point! But, edging is really not a kink at all!
Edging is basically orgasm control. The point of it is to hold out from your orgasm for as long as possible because the end result becomes THAT much sweeter. Now, let me tell you it is NOT easy. It takes a lot of discipline to hold out from such a blissful pleasure.
But, the result is basically a super satisfying, leg-shaking, body-numbing reward for all your prime work in the sheets…sounds good, right? So, why not give it a try?
Men Should Already Be Edging
Men, wake-up! You should all be practicing edging already. We know it doesn’t take long for you to feel the eruption once you enter the glorious V, but if you seriously can’t make it last, you kind of need to step up your game. Not being harsh, bro, just being REAL.
**Here are some tips and tricks to last longer… READ UP PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS HOLY:
1). Squeeze Technique: When you feel like you’re about to cum, firmly squeeze (or have your lady squeeze) the part of the skin just below the tip of the penis. Hold this for about 10 seconds. This will stop ejaculation when you feel like you can’t hold back any longer. After you’ve cooled off, you’ll be ready to go again in no time!
2). Seman’s Manoeuvre: Also known as the start/stop technique, this is when you take breaks throughout sex. Now, I’m not saying break for some coffee or a quick gym sesh, I’m saying- If you’re inside of your girl and feel the NEED to cum, simply pull-out, and switch it up a little! Maybe give her V a little close-up attention by going down on her- just an idea!
3). PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE: Men, I am encouraging you to masturbate and practice edging on your own using both the squeeze and the start/stop technique. Practice makes perfect…or like better.
P.S. Using a porn video as a timer for yourself works really well.
You’ll thank us, men, when your girl is screaming in pleasure because you’re hitting her G-Spot just right for like 30 minutes (FYI: it takes the average woman at least 20 minutes to cum!). You’ll both come out having stronger Os that’ll leave you breathless.
Let’s Not Forget Us Ladies
Women should practice edging to strengthen their Os and to intensify the whole sexual experience. The idea of a man starting and stopping throughout sex (as long as it’s not too frequent and not done sloppily) drives us wild!
Feeling incredible pleasure through intercourse and then having it suddenly taken away, right before it hits its peak, psychologically and physically makes us crave it, and in turn, crave you- so men, take advantage of this science because we can’t help but want what we can’t have!
Edging for women is strictly for the point of pleasure. We don’t need to try to last longer, but we do wish for a glorious O that will have our whole body tingling and our feet on fire.
**Women, here are some tips to make your edging experience top-notch:
1). When masturbating allow yourself to almost hit the point of no return and then cut off stimulation for about 20 seconds before you start again. This works best when masturbating using clitoral stimulation rather than trying to hit your G-Spot. Do this over and over until you HAVE to let yourself cum.
2). When practicing edging with your man, have him stimulate you in a start/stop fashion. Hopefully, you won’t have to walk him through every step of the way; someone who is good in bed will be able to tell from your body language (squeezing, toe-curling, pulsing, etc.) when you’re about to cum, therefore knowing when to stop and start stimulation. He can do this with his hand, his mouth, a toy, honestly, whatever you guys are into doing- edging can be incorporated.
So, NYgal, what are you doing still reading this? Get practicing!
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